Dear Tanta Golda,
I recently picked up a joke book and I noticed that there
were quite a few Jewish jokes. This got me wondering: Why are there so many
Jewish mother jokes? Don’t Catholics, Buddhists, and Jehovah’s Witnesses have
mothers? Aren’t they funny too?
Son of a Jewish mother
Dear son,
Jewish mothers are funny? I hadn’t noticed…
All I do is worry about you – Stop slouching, you think I don’t know you’re
slouching out there on the other side of this letter? Do you want to be as
hunched over as that poor hunchback of Notre Dame? Do you think he had a Jewish
mother? Of course not! Look at him.
Now where were we? Oy yes, why Jewish humor. There
are some who say that Jewish humor stems from the legal and intellectual
methods used in the Talmud, where the arguments are so elaborate and situations
used so absurd, as to border on humor. I don’t know that the scholars of the
time saw themselves as comedians, but it’s an interesting concept to ponder.
Now that you’re done pondering, let’s look at more modern roots
of Jewish humor. Much of what we in the United States think of as “Jewish
Humor” had its roots in Eastern Europe. Why is Eastern Europe so important to
humor? Well, bubalah that is where the majority of American Jews can trace
their ancestry. So now, think pogroms, blood libel, and the Holocaust. Is it
any wonder that Saul Bellow once said, “Oppressed people tend to be witty.” It
was a part of a long tradition in Eastern Europe to mock powerful people. Look
at Purim Shpeils. A scholar of Jewish humor – Rabbi Woldoks – said that humor defends
the poor against the exploitation of the upper classes or other authority
figures (even rabbis!)
This style of self- deprecating humor was brought to
American consciousness first through vaudeville, then radio, stand-up, films,
and television. It is true that comedians have been disproportionally Jewish,
though the past 15 or so years as seen a rise in the same sort of self
deprecating humor coming from the African-American and Hispanic communities.
The stereotype of the overbearing Jewish mother and
smothered son, was further fueled by fiction writers such as Herman Wouk and
Philip Roth. Author William Helreich (another nice Jewish boy) posited that the
attributes we associate with Jewish mothers (over protective, pushy, and guilt
inducing) can equally describe mothers of other ethnicities. These traits have
their roots in the self sacrifice of first generation immigrants who then
transfer their aspirations onto their darlings. And why wouldn’t they? It has
been noted that as the immigrant generation becomes further removed, mother
jokes have morphed into the Jewish grandmother joke. Hmph!
If one does a web search (not for spiders, Tanta Golda
wouldn’t tolerate them in her home!) there are plenty of jokes about Catholics
(often listed as ‘clean’) and even Buddhists. The fact is – in Tanta Golda’s
unbiased opinion – Jews are just funnier.
