tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-59962353561921493672024-03-13T10:19:37.001-07:00Tanta Golda Answers Questions on JudaismA place to ask advice on Jewish customs, rituals, and other Jewish “how-tos” that perhaps you’ve been too shy to ask.Geri Copitchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05959583503334926247noreply@blogger.comBlogger65125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5996235356192149367.post-21755356524427405722022-07-10T17:07:00.000-07:002022-07-10T17:07:36.717-07:00What Does Judaism Say About Abortion?<p><span style="font-family: trebuchet; font-size: medium;"> <span style="text-indent: 18px;">Dear Tanta Golda,</span></span></p>
<p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-indent: 18px;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet; font-size: medium;">I don’t wish to offend you, but I’m confused about what the Supreme Court ruling on Roe v Wade means to me as a Jew? I had an aunt who was raised in an Orthodox home who travelled to Mexico in the early 1960s to get an abortion because she and my uncle were told another pregnancy could kill her. (She’d had complications due to diabetes.) I can’t imagine her even contemplating this if Judaism said it was immoral, but I hear some people say that life begins at conception. Could you shed some light in these dark times?</span></p>
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<p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-indent: 18px;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet; font-size: medium;">My darling Struggling. Oy, aren’t we all right now? I’m glad you’ve asked about this emotionally complex issue. Now, before some of my readers start wringing their hands, you are entitled to your personal beliefs. This article is taking on the Jewish view of abortion.</span></p><p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-indent: 18px;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet; font-size: medium;"><br /></span></p>
<p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-indent: 18px;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet; font-size: medium;">Not too surprisingly, the different streams of Judaism have somewhat different views about <i>under what circumstances</i> abortion is religiously acceptable. That being said, certain aspects of this question are agreed upon by ALL streams, from the most liberal to the most traditional.</span></p><p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-indent: 18px;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet; font-size: medium;"><br /></span></p>
<p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-indent: 18px;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet; font-size: medium;">1. Life does not begin at conception. You read that correctly. According to numerous rabbinic sources, life begins when the head of the child enters the world. Until that time, the fetus is considered another ‘limb’ of the mother, and therefore she has say over what she does to it. Just as you can decide whether or not to donate a kidney to your Aunt Sadie—even if your kidney is the only way to save her life. As further proof, the rabbis discussed in the Babylonian Talmud Yevamot 69b: “the embryo is considered to be mere water until the fortieth day.#” Science fiction movies not withstanding, water isn’t alive. According to another rabbinic text, a fetus is not even “viable” until the seventh month. But, even among Orthodox rabbis, being viable only gives the fetus “partial life,” which still does not trump the health and safety of the mother. If we only delved this far, we can see that the rabbis most certainly did not consider life beginning at conception.</span></p><p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-indent: 18px;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet; font-size: medium;"><br /></span></p>
<p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-indent: 18px;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet; font-size: medium;">Some have asked me, what about the child’s soul? According to Jewish belief, ensoulment is not a Halachic (Jewish law) issue since full human status in Judaism occurs only at the birth of a full-term baby. Which brings us to point number two.</span></p><p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-indent: 18px;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet; font-size: medium;"><br /></span></p>
<p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-indent: 18px;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet; font-size: medium;">2. Abortion is not murder. In this instance, let me point you to the Torah. Exodus 21:22-23, recounts a story of two men who are fighting and injure a pregnant woman, resulting in her subsequent miscarriage. The verse explains that if the only harm done is the miscarriage, then the perpetrator must pay a fine. The common rabbinic interpretation is that if the only harm is the loss of the fetus, it is treated as a case of property damage — not murder. However, if the pregnant person is gravely injured, the penalty shall be a life for a life as in other homicides. Notice the distinction. Causing the death of a living breathing woman is murder, but causing the termination of a pregnancy is not. *Some Orthodox believe that once a fetus has reached the end of the sixth month, see viability above, abortion is “possible” murder—unless the life of the mother is threatened.</span></p><p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-indent: 18px;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet; font-size: medium;">Third term abortions are rare (<1%) and nearly always done for medical reasons.</span></p><p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-indent: 18px;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet; font-size: medium;"><br /></span></p>
<p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-indent: 18px;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet; font-size: medium;">3. If you were here—well first, I’d offer you a nosh—but once refreshed you might point out that science has come so far since the time of Rashi and Maimonides, we know more about fetal development. At some point, perhaps past the seventh month, doesn’t the fetus have rights? No, bubbeleh. The rabbis agree that until the child has fully emerged they are not considered a person. (Of course, as any beaming mother-to-be will tell you, without a doubt there’s a little person growing in them, but we are talking about saged, rabbinic rulings, not emotion.) To quote Mishnah, Ohalot 7:6 If the life of the mother is endangered by the fetus, “her life takes precedence over [the fetus’s] life.” This is an important point given the restrictions some states are imposing, or threatening to impose on those who can bear children. The life of the mother always takes precedence. Across all streams of Judaism. Always.</span></p><p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-indent: 18px;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet; font-size: medium;"><br /></span></p>
<p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-indent: 18px;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet; font-size: medium;">Now we get into grey areas where different streams of Judaism, even different rabbis within a stream interpret things, well, differently. Since, my dear reader, you’re likely Jewish, would you expect them all to agree?</span></p><p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-indent: 18px;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet; font-size: medium;"><br /></span></p>
<p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-indent: 18px;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet; font-size: medium;">I’m talking about if and when abortion is acceptable (Halachically) when the mother’s life isn’t in danger.</span></p><p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-indent: 18px;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet; font-size: medium;"><br /></span></p>
<p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-indent: 18px;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet; font-size: medium;">Most rabbis agree that abortion should not be used for convenience. To Tanta Golda, that seems like a very broad, and subjective term. But, equally subjective is when some rabbis say, ‘the mental health of the mother’ should be considered. All of which is to say, whatever position you take about abortion when it’s not saving the mother’s physical life, Judaism probably agrees with you.</span></p><p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-indent: 18px;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet; font-size: medium;"><br /></span></p>
<p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-indent: 18px;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet; font-size: medium;">Tanta Golda’s sources at My Jewish Learning have this to add, “There are Orthodox rabbinic sources that support abortion when a mother’s health is in danger even if her life is not at risk; when a fetus is conclusively determined to suffer from severe abnormalities; when a mother’s mental health is in danger; or when the pregnancy is the result of a forbidden sexual union. However, these rulings are not universally accepted,” and most cases should be judged on a case-by-case basis. <span style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal;">*Some of these rabbinic sources are cited from another source in the first link below.*</span></span></p><p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-indent: 18px;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet; font-size: medium;"><span style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal;"><br /></span></span></p>
<p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-indent: 18px;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet; font-size: medium;">And one last point, in Israel abortion is legal, and in many cases, even qualifies to be paid for by the State. Israel—where the Chief Rabbi is Orthodox, where <span style="text-decoration: underline;">all</span> marriages must be religious marriages, where Reform Jews are viewed by some as apostates—that Israel, allows abortion. Just a little something to ponder.</span></p><p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-indent: 18px;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet; font-size: medium;"><br /></span></p>
<p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-indent: 18px;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet; font-size: medium;">To conclude, my Struggling dear one, we acknowledge that this is an important, emotionally fraught issue with few answers that work for everyone. Please, my readers, whatever your personal views, be kind to those who disagree with you.</span></p><p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-indent: 18px;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet; font-size: medium;"><br /></span></p>
<p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-indent: 18px;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet; font-size: medium;">Much love as you struggle with the tough questions, Tanta Golda</span></p>
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<p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-indent: 18px;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet; font-size: medium;">If you wish to see where Tanta Golda sourced much of her information you can go here:<br />
<a href="https://jwa.org/encyclopedia/article/abortion">https://jwa.org/encyclopedia/article/abortion</a><br />
<a href="https://www.myjewishlearning.com/article/abortion-in-jewish-thought/">https://www.myjewishlearning.com/article/abortion-in-jewish-thought/</a><br /><a href="https://www.chabad.org/library/article_cdo/aid/529077/jewish/Judaism-and-Abortion.htm">
https://www.chabad.org/library/article_cdo/aid/529077/jewish/Judaism-and-Abortion.htm</a></span></p>Geri Copitchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05959583503334926247noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5996235356192149367.post-7695423093600590442021-09-23T18:56:00.001-07:002022-03-04T19:02:50.576-08:00The Jewish Obligation to Get Vaccinated<p>Dear Tanta Golda,</p><p>The Board of our synagogue came out with a policy that will allow us to gather in person. Amend that--that will allow some of us to gather in person--provided they are vaccinated. They say this is based on Jewish ethics, but what did the sages of the Talmud know from vaccines?</p><p>Fear of Needles</p><p>Darling Needless,</p><p>In last week’s Torah portion, Ki Thetze, we are told: If a (person) builds a new house, then they shall make a parapet (low wall) for the roof so they will not bring blood (injury) on (or off) the roof. (Deut 22:8)</p><p>It does not say to build the parapet only to protect the old, or only if someone in your household has a pre-existing condition that might cause them to fall. It doesn’t give you an ‘out’ for being young and healthy. Everyone is commanded to build a parapet in order to prevent anyone from coming to harm.</p><p>I suppose the Torah could have said, if you are old or have a pre-existing condition, you should stay within your home so healthy people can express their freedom to enjoy the roof without restrictions, but it doesn’t. Why? Because in Judaism we are told to put the needs of the community at the forefront. When my niece, Geri, was teaching a class on Jewish ethics at Bet Sefer, the chapter on Pikuah Nefesh cited this Torah passage as an example of how important the rabbis felt our obligation to ‘save a soul’ e.g prevent bodily harm, was.</p><p>Pikuah Nefesh overrides all other ethical obligations. All of them. </p><p>This Yom Kippur we will say the Vidui, the list of sins which we ask forgiveness. We aren’t told to say only the ones we are guilty of. We recite all of them, together, as a community because we are responsible for each other. By asking forgiveness for not only our own mis-steps, but those of our community members as well, we are holding each other up. It is the same reason we say the Mourners Kaddish only when we have a minyon (ten Jewish adults), and the reason we are told to rejoice with the bride and groom. Because in times of grief, in times of joy, we lift each other up, we watch out for each other.</p><p>The Central Conference of American Rabbis, (CCAR) the oldest and largest rabbinic organization in North America, came out with a Responsa, a Jewish legal ruling, back in 1994 in response to the question of whether a Hebrew School could require students to be vaccinated. The ruling was a resounding, Yes. They cited the overriding obligation to protect the community. This April they issued a resolution in response to Covid-19 vaccine. It affirmed their 1994 ruling. https://www.ccarnet.org/ccar-resolutions/central-conference-of-american-rabbis-resolution-on-the-covid-19-vaccination/</p><p>This is not just a liberal rant from a crochety old woman. There are centuries of rabbis standing behind me. We are stronger when we support each other, when we have each other’s backs. We do have to care for ourselves, but we must also care for others. As Hillel said, “If I am not for myself, who will be for me? If I am only for myself, what am I? And if not now, when?”</p><p>Kol Tov, be well, stay healthy--TG</p>Geri Copitchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05959583503334926247noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5996235356192149367.post-81948509259693549872021-08-26T18:52:00.001-07:002022-03-04T19:06:18.349-08:00Must I Ask Forgiveness?<p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-indent: 18px;"><span style="font-family: times;">Dear Tanta Golda,</span></p><p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-indent: 18px;"><span style="font-family: times;"><br /></span></p><p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-indent: 18px;"><span style="font-family: times;">The rabbi told us that during the month of Elul we are supposed to go around and ask people to forgive us. I’m mostly a nice person, but to be honest, sometimes I say something when I’m angry that I didn’t mean. But they are just words, no big deal, right? And what about people I gossiped about behind their backs? They don’t know about it, so why should I upset them?</span></p><p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-indent: 18px;"><span style="font-family: times;">Coward, Trying to do Better.</span></p><p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-indent: 18px;"><span style="font-family: times;"><br /></span></p><p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-indent: 18px;"><span style="font-family: times;"><br /></span></p><p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-indent: 18px;"><span style="font-family: times;">My Darling Coward,</span></p><p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-indent: 18px;"><span style="font-family: times;"><br /></span></p><p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-indent: 18px;"><span style="font-family: times;">There is an ancient Jewish proverb that goes: Loose tongues are worse than wicked hands. Words, shmords, you say. How can they be worse than a smack across the face? Let me tell you a story about the time my cousin Maidle asked the rabbi the same question.</span></p><p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-indent: 18px;"><span style="font-family: times;">The rabbi of our humble little village was old and wise, as rabbis were back in the old country. (Now, many of them are young and wise.) He told Maidle to take one of her fine goose down pillows up to the roof of the tallest building in the shtel. Once she was there, she should rip it open and let the feathers free.</span></p><p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-indent: 18px;"><span style="font-family: times;">Having done that, she returned to the rabbi. “Nu? I destroyed one of my good feather pillows—one so soft it was like sleeping on a cloud—but I did what you asked and released the feathers. Now what?”</span></p><p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-indent: 18px;"><span style="font-family: times;">The rabbi nodded. “Now,” he said, “go gather all the feathers.”</span></p><p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-indent: 18px;"><span style="font-family: times;">My cousin Maidle was shocked. “Why, that will be impossible! They have blown into every nook and cranny of the village!”</span></p><p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-indent: 18px;"><span style="font-family: times;">The rabbi sat back in his chair and nodded sagely, as rabbis do. “Ah, now you see. Words are like feathers. Once they are out they are nearly impossible to take back fully.”</span></p><p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-indent: 18px;"><span style="font-family: times;">So, back to the proverb. While physically more aggressive, the sting of a smack fades fairly quickly, but words—words linger. Now you know why gossip is called lashon hara - evil tongue.</span></p><p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-indent: 18px;"><span style="font-family: times;">During Elul, we are required to seek out those we’ve wronged since last Rosh Hashanah and ask forgiveness. But, how we ask depends on the extent of the ‘damage’ done. If your words created negative consequences, say the person lost standing in the community or was fired from their job, or was embarrassed in front of the whole office, then you must ask them directly for forgiveness. But, even if there is no lasting harm, and you know the person will be understanding, you should still ask. Like when you yell at your child for dropping garbage next to the garbage can and leaving it there—for the nth time. Oy!</span></p><p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-indent: 18px;"><span style="font-family: times;">However, if informing the person that you spoke about them will result in embarrassment or hurt—like gossiping with Chana after services about the hideous dress Maidle wore when she gave her speech at last month’s Sisterhood lunch, then it is acceptable to ask for general forgiveness without going into details. In fact, the rabbis say, if informing the person of the deed would cause embarrassment, that itself would be cause for asking forgiveness again.</span></p><p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-indent: 18px;"><span style="font-family: times;">Words matter, but actions speak louder. Go forth and show those you’ve wronged with your loose tongue that you will aim to do better in the year to come.</span></p><p style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; text-indent: 18px;"><span style="font-family: times;">Much love, TG</span></p>Geri Copitchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05959583503334926247noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5996235356192149367.post-81860489554206322022020-10-22T19:08:00.001-07:002022-03-04T19:11:10.022-08:00How Many Days Does One Sit Shiva?<p> Dear Tanta Golda,</p><p><br /></p><p>After a recent Friday night service, my friends and I got to talking about sitting Shiva. They both agreed that one sits Shiva for 7 days, but after my mother passed away, her rabbi told me that one only sits Shiva until Shabbat, so that if someone passed away on a Thursday, then you stopped sitting Shiva on Friday night. Who is right?</p><p>BB</p><p><br /></p><p>Darling BB,</p><p><br /></p><p>You hang out with brilliant people – one does indeed sit Shiva for seven days. Shiva literally means seven. I wonder if perhaps you’re confusing the prohibition of sitting Shiva on Shabbat with ending Shiva altogether. </p><p><br /></p><p>According to tradition, one does not sit Shiva on Shabbat – in fact Halacha (Jewish law) goes so far as to prohibit it, and specifies that mourners are to go to the synagogue in the first Shabbat following a loved one’s death. (The Jewish Home) However, once Shabbat ends on Saturday evening, one returns to sitting Shiva. So, it may be that you misunderstood the rabbi’s instructions. In the aftermath of losing someone we are not always at our listening and comprehending best. And he may have presumed you knew this already and didn’t bother to explain further.</p><p><br /></p><p>There are several holidays that also preempt the sitting of Shiva since the mitzvah of observing them supersedes everything else (except health and safety.) These holidays are: Pesach, Shavuot, Sukkot, Rosh Hashannah, and Yom Kippur. It is best to check with your rabbi for the specifics because it’s not as simple as it sounds.</p><p><br /></p><p>All of this however does not mean that anyone expects your grief to just vanish. Judaism tries to balance the need for grieving with the importance of easing one’s way back into the world. The rabbis knew that without guidance, some people would become so distraught that they would wallow in their grief and forget to go on with life.</p><p><br /></p><p>Judaism breaks mourning up into several periods after Shiva. They are: Sholoshim – the 30 day period after the funeral - one is supposed to return to work or school, but refrain from going to parties or other celebrations– who feels like going to a party so soon after a loss anyway? Next comes Shanah. For the eleven months following the funeral a mourner says kaddish daily. After eleven moths the family goes to the cemetery for the unveiling of the headstone. At this time one is supposed to go be ready to fully participate in life cycle events – including marriage. Personally, Tanta Golda couldn’t see being ready to get re-married after eleven months, but then again, she is blessed with a very happy marriage. </p><p>I hope that it is a long time until you need to sit Shiva again</p><p><br /></p><p>Much love - TG</p>Geri Copitchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05959583503334926247noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5996235356192149367.post-69049187637285007002020-05-08T19:43:00.001-07:002022-03-04T19:46:16.240-08:00Do Jews Use Letters for Numbers--or Aleph-Bet Math?<p> Dear Tanta Golda,</p><p>I’ve heard that the letters of the Hebrew alphabet also stand for numbers. How does this work? I mean if I want two fish do I ask for bet dag? How would I write the number 21? </p><p>A budding Hebrew scholar</p><p><br /></p><p>Scholar, Oye, a mother’s dream, a Hebrew scholar…well okay, a Hebrew scholar who’s a doctor, for this I’d kvell!</p><p>You ask such a wonderful question! Yes, each letter has a numeric value. However, you must bear in mind that any family letters share the same value. This means that both bet בּ and vet ב are symbolic of the number 2, pey פּ and fey פ are both worth 80, and shin שׁ and sin ש 300. Final letters have the same value as their non-final counterparts (mem מ and final mem ם are both worth 40) The numeric values go from 1 (aleph א) to ten (yud י), then increase by tens (kaf כ is 20, lamed ל 30) until 100 (kof ק) with the rest going up in increments of 100. For a chart you can go to: www.jewfaq.org/alephbet.htm This is at Judaism 101, a wonderful site for many of your Judaic questions.</p><p>When written this way they have a cumulative value. That is to write the number 21 you would write from right to left kaf aleph - 20+1. You would not just write bet aleph. Usually the number with the highest value is written first, followed by the number of the next highest value, and so on. So, 248 - the number of positive mitzvot that God gave us - is written רמח resh mem chet 200+40+8. (There are two exceptions to the rule of using the letters of the highest value when writing numbers: 15 & 16 are written with as 9+6 and 9+7 respectively, since using the highest possible value letters - 10+5 & 10+6 would each be a name of God.)</p><p> In modern Hebrew even in erezt Yisrael (the land of Israel) the decimal system of Hindu-Arabic numerals (1,2,3) are used. Hebrew numbers are used mainly for writing the days and years of the Hebrew calendar (not the secular one we all use), for references to Jewish texts, for numbering lists - much in the same way we use Roman numerals, and in numerology. You may notice in many Tanachs that the line references use the aleph-bet number system.</p><p>Now my scholar, you asked about how you would ‘ask’ for two fish. For speaking counting numbers are used. For example: Ehad - one (you may remember hearing this in the Shema) shenayim - two, shelosha - three. If you ever sang ehad a mi o deya in Hebrew during Passover, you sang these numbers!</p><p>Now, there is a system of Jewish mysticism called the Gematria which delves into the ‘hidden’ meaning of words based on their numerical value. Tanta Golda isn’t going to go into this other than to point out that the letters in the word ‘chai’ - life, are chet yud which added together are 18. This is why many gifts are given in denominations of 18!</p><p>And, while you didn’t ask, the number 13 has no negative connotation in Jewish tradition. Thirteen is the age of B’nei mitzvah, we have Rambam’s 13 principles, and the 13 attributes of Mercy are mentioned in Exodus!</p><p>Keep up your scholarly pursuits! Love - TG</p>Geri Copitchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05959583503334926247noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5996235356192149367.post-67239611443011021642019-02-28T14:07:00.001-08:002019-02-28T14:07:53.445-08:00Why Some Jews Keep Baby Names Secret<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span style="font-kerning: none;">In a few short weeks, our Rabbi and his wife are going to be blessed with their first child. One of my friends asked why the rabbi was being so tight-lipped about baby names. One of the members of my Havurah said it had to do with Lilith. Is this true, and who is this Lilith?</span></div>
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<span style="font-kerning: none;">First, I wish the parents to be all the best for an easy delivery and a healthy birth!</span></div>
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<span style="font-kerning: none;">Now for your question. When it comes to pre-birth preparations and baby naming in Judaism we have a mixture of traditions and superstitions. Their genesis is not much of a mystery. It estimated that at the turn of the 20</span><span style="-webkit-font-kerning: none; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal;"><sup>th</sup></span><span style="font-kerning: none;"> century (1900) 10%, or 10 of every 100, children in the US died in their first year of life. Tanta Golda isn’t quite that old, but she suspects that infant mortality rates were even higher during the Middle Ages when many of these superstitions were born. Infant mortality was a way of life. Worried parents then, as now, searched for ways to protect their precious ones.</span></div>
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<span style="font-kerning: none;">The tradition arose in Judaism not to name a child—which included not sharing the name with friends—until the 8</span><span style="-webkit-font-kerning: none; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal;"><sup>th</sup></span><span style="font-kerning: none;"> day, when boys are traditionally circumcised during a Brit Milah and entered into the covenant. Girls, meh, they were named at Temple on the Shabbat after their birth.</span></div>
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<span style="font-kerning: none;">Some say the naming tradition is based on the bubbe meises (old wives tale) that if the name is made public too soon some evil force or another would claim the child’s life. Tanta Golda has found that fingers are pointed to not one, but three culprits: The Angel of Death, a vague evil eye spirit, and Lilith.</span></div>
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<span style="font-kerning: none;">Now, it came as a surprise to Tanta Golda to learn in her advanced years that some expectant parents go so far as to shun purchasing anything for the wee one in advance, which also means they don’t have a baby shower or set up the nursery prior to the birth. All to avoid BAD THINGS happening. Does it work? It is not Tanta Golda’s place to argue with her rabbi, but she was eager to set up her own nursery before her children came into the world and shared potential names with anyone foolish enough to ask. In spite of her blatant disregard for tradition, both her marvelous children were born healthy and argue with her like the scholars she raised them to be.</span></div>
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<span style="font-kerning: none;">Where does this mysterious Lilith come into this you ask? There is a midrash that Adam had a wife before Eve. The midrash claims this is the reason there are two versions of Creation in the Torah. It is said that Lilith was created at the same time as Adam—not from his rib later on. She argued with Adam that since they were created at the same time, they were equal in all things. When Adam said, “You lie under me.” She replied, “No, you lie under me.” She shared her opinions freely, and in general, didn’t scrape and bow to Adam’s every whim. Adam complained to Hashem that Lilith was difficult, and Hashem nixed Lilith. This did not make Lilith happy and now she is said to roam the world killing newborn babies. Many pregnant Jewish women will wear an amulet or hang one over their infant’s cribs to ward off Lilith.</span></div>
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<span style="font-kerning: none;">The name Lilith stems from the same root as lila, evening, and she is said to do most of her mischief at night. There are a number of other salacious tales about Lilith’s evil ways, but they don’t relate to your question.</span></div>
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Geri Copitchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05959583503334926247noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5996235356192149367.post-77570660469043337852015-04-19T19:05:00.002-07:002015-04-19T19:05:43.237-07:00Illegitimacy in Judaism - is it still a thing?<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Our rabbi gave a talk recently about “Who is a Jew?” and the word <i>Mamzer</i> came up. He apologized and said that this would have to be the topic of another lecture. The best I could gather was that is meant ‘bastard’, as in illegitimate. Is this really a thing in Judaism? Could you explain?</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">While secular society in the United States has matured, and illegitimate children are no longer ostracized as they once were, your question deals with <i>halachah</i> - Jewish ritual law.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">According to halachah, a <i>mamzer</i> or “illegitimate” child is one born from an incestuous relationship or adultery and such offspring are forbidden to marry almost all other Jews, “except for other <i>mamzerim</i> and for proselytes.” (Babylonian Talmud, Kiddushin 72b) Isn’t that nice, converts are allowed to marry the forbidden. Now to clarify: a <i>mamzer </i>is not a bastard born out of wedlock. A person is halachcally illegitimate only if conceived in an act of incest or adultery. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Reform Judaism doesn’t spend too much time worrying about this, “since it is morally repugnant to place such a crushing stigma upon a child whose only ‘crime’ was to be to his or her parents.” (Jewish Living, Washofsky)</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">However, we do not live in a world of Reform Jews and Reform halachah alone so there are some factors you should be aware of. First, (Jewish) traditional law does not recognize civil divorce, so a Jewish woman who doesn’t go through a bet din and get a religious divorce before remarrying, is still considered legally married to her previous husband. Therefore, any children of her second marriage would be considered mamzerim. If these children later decide to marry a traditionally observant Jew, they will find they cannot. This becomes an even greater issue if they move to Israel, where the law of divorce is overseen by the Orthodox rabbinate for all Jews, regardless of their level of observance. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Now my darling, don’t fret too much, they won’t see your marriage as legitimate in any case, unless overseen by an Orthodox rabbi. So, since your Reform marriage was never a legitimate one in the first place, there’s no need to obtain a <i>get</i> (Jewish divorce) and any children born of a second marriage are not therefore the product of adultery. Isn’t that a relief!</span></div>
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Geri Copitchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05959583503334926247noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5996235356192149367.post-56035077590832329522014-04-23T09:00:00.000-07:002014-04-23T09:00:02.194-07:00Another Bar Mitzvah? Why at 83?<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
<span style="letter-spacing: 0px;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Dear Tanta Golda,</span></span><br />
<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Recently the dad of a friend of mine had a ‘second’ bar mitzvah. I didn’t know this was a thing. Why would someone want to go through all that again?</span></span><br />
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Come here and let me pinch your cheek. Being called to the Torah as a Bar or Bat Mitzvah shouldn’t be seen as some onerous chore, though at 12-13 most of us did feel that way. Trust me, when it is something you yourself are choosing to do, it’s a different story.</span></span><br />
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Now to answer your question. In the Pirkei Avot- the Ethics of the Fathers, Rabbi Yehuda Ben Tema states that 70 is considered a "ripe old age.” In Psalm 90, Moses says that “the measure of a life is 70 years.” So, if one has the good fortune to live past this age it is as if they are given a second life. By starting at 70 and adding 13, one gets to 83. This is where the age of a second bar mitzvah comes from.</span></span><br />
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Now there are those who like to point out a) you become a bar mitzvah at 13, whether or not you are called to the Torah. (12 if you are a girl, we advance so much earlier.) </span></span><br />
<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">b) one should be living a life of Torah from that point on, so the idea of a second bar mitzvah is mishegos. — Some people take all the joy out of symbolism.</span></span><br />
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">What these points don’t take into account the spiritual re-connection that this being called for a second bar/bat mitzvah evokes. Any chance to re-connect with one’s Judaism should be honored and a cause for celebration.</span></span><br />
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">As my friends at <a href="http://aish.com/"><span style="letter-spacing: 0px;">aish.com</span></a> say so eloquently: May we all merit to live that long!</span></span><br />
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Geri Copitchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05959583503334926247noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5996235356192149367.post-5203807960055435592014-04-19T12:45:00.001-07:002014-04-19T12:45:52.075-07:00Rice, Corn, Beans...Kosher for Passover or not?<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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I went to a Seder a few days ago and my hostess was shocked that I had put peas and baby corn into the salad I brought. Peas don't rise, what's the deal?<br />
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Dearest Pensive,<br />
Oy! This is a question that comes my way every year. If you know anything about Jews, you know there's no straight forward answer.<br />
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The Torah specifically prohibits five grains: wheat, barley, rye, oats, and spelt. That's it. Period. End of discussion. Or is it?<br />
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Well, as is typical, certain rabbis felt this wasn't stringent enough. Apparently they they didn't feel they were experiencing the deprivations of the exodus enough. Or maybe they felt their wives had it too easy in the kitchen. Whatever the case - they determined that the list of restricted foods should be larger.<br />
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Now, this list of 'extras' various depending on where you trace your ancestry from. Ashkenazi Jews typically also avoid peas - in fact any legume, corn, rice, and sometimes peanuts. These items are referred to as <i>Kitniyot</i> (translated as ‘small things’ )<br />
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Sephardim - those who trace their lineage to northern Africa, Israel, or the Iberian Peninsula, have somewhat less stringent prohibitions. Corn and peas may be eaten after being thoroughly checked. Some eat rice, some don't. (as always - if these things are important to your observance, check with your rabbi to see what is acceptable in your community)<br />
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Why you may ask? Tanta Golda has been told two possible reasons:<br />
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All of the above can be ground into a flour and someone <i>walking by </i><u>might</u> think you were eating chametz. Apparently the rabbis were afraid of what the neighbors might think and weren't on good enough terms to explain the confusion. Holier-than-thou oneupmanship at its silliness.</blockquote>
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Reason number two is that these items were/are often stored near the forbidden items during the rest of the year and <i>might </i>have picked up some minute bits of chametz so that when they are cooked, you would also be ingesting chametz. Really? Only these items might have picked up chametz? Why so selective? Why not just ban everything in the pantry? Such mishegos.</blockquote>
Tanta Golda was very pleased to see that this year two groups agreed with Tanta Golda and ruled that both Ashkenazim and Sephardim should be permitted to eat rice, corn, and kitniyot during Pesach. These groups were the Responsa Committee of the Reform Jewish Movement, and the Responsa Committee of the Israeli Conservative Movement. For more information on the foundation of their decisions you should check out this article.<br />
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<a href="http://www.reformjudaism.org/food-restrictions-passover-explained-chametz-and-kitniyot#.U0xqDUfbmAA.facebook" target="_blank">Passover Food Restrictions Explained</a><br />
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In the end, you should do what your heart says is right when observing Pesach. Me, I'm going to follow the Torah, eat peas and snack on popcorn.<br />
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Chag Semeach!<br />
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Geri Copitchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05959583503334926247noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5996235356192149367.post-13908222694272155342014-01-29T10:15:00.001-08:002014-01-29T10:15:19.085-08:00Can You Kabbala?<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Dear Tanta Golda,</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">I recently attended a Tu B’Shevat seder and the Rabbi mentioned the Kabbalists. So, I got to wondering: just what is the Kabbalah? And - is it true that your are supposed to be 40 before your study it?</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Dearest Questioner,</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"> An excellent question - especially as we get closer to he holiday of the ‘hidden’ - Purim.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">The Kabbala is considered the ‘mystical’ side of Judaism. Now, don’t start thinking crystal balls, turbans and incense. Nor does it imply anything dark or sinister. Rather it is a search for ‘hidden’ inner meaning.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Let me backtrack a little. Most of the Kabbala is found in the <a href="http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_noss?url=search-alias%3Daps&field-keywords=Zohar" target="_blank">Zohar</a> which was ‘revealed’ in the thirteenth century by <a href="http://www.amazon.com/The-Book-Pomegranate-Moses-Ha-Rimmon/dp/1930675208/ref=sr_1_13?ie=UTF8&qid=1391018970&sr=8-13&keywords=moses+de+leon" target="_blank">Moses De Leon</a>. Leon claimed that the Zohar was actually his compilation of rabbinic writings from older sources, especially second century rabbi <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Nine-Half-Mystics-Kabbala-Today/dp/0684843250/ref=sr_1_37?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1391019253&sr=1-37&keywords=Simeon+bar+Yochai" target="_blank">Simeon bar Yochai</a>. Most scholars think Leon embellished this link to give the Zohar more ancient credibility. Today, mysticism is an integral part of Chasidic Judaism, and the Kabbala is often cited as source material for passages in their prayerbooks.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Now, Tanta Golda has never studied Kabbala herself, so she has relied on her trusted sources to help answer your question. Perhaps the best definition for Kabbalah comes from Tzvi Freeman at chabad.org. He describes it this way: Inside your body breathes a person—a soul. Inside the body of Jewish practice breathes an inner wisdom—the soul of Judaism…</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">The discovery of this inner wisdom is Kabbala.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Another name for Kabbalah is “Torat ha-Sod.” Commonly mistranslated as “the secret teaching.”</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Kabbalah is not a secret teaching. It is the teaching of a secret. Freeman goes on to explain:</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">“The secret teaching” means that we are trying to hide something from you.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">“The teaching of the secret” means that we are trying to teach something to you, to open up and reveal something hidden.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Why should the student of Kabbala be at least 40? Because, by that time one is considered to have attained the maturity to fully understand the questions and answers inherent in its study. In practice, people younger than 40 have studied Kabbala, but only after the person teaching them determined that they possessed the requisite level of maturity. Kabbala purists say that it is something to be studied one-on-one with a well learned teacher, not something to be consumed en masse in a university course, or through ‘popular’ literature.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Does Tanta Golda believe this? Meh. Does her opinion matter? You get to make this determination. Let me close with this anecdote:</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Tracey R Rich, with jewfaq.org, cites one Orthodox man, who when introducing a speaker on the subject of Jewish mysticism, said basically, "it's nonsense, but it's Jewish nonsense, and the study of anything Jewish, even nonsense, is worthwhile.”</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Be well my kindeleh! Keep sending in your questions to TantaGolda@gmail.com</span></div>
Geri Copitchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05959583503334926247noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5996235356192149367.post-91443525128213155962013-08-11T09:51:00.000-07:002013-08-11T09:51:20.827-07:00Don't Know Much About Sukkot<br />
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">I noticed that September is chock-full of holidays this year. Our congregation holds a Shabbat under the sukkah, but I’m embarrassed to attend because my family didn’t do anything with this holiday when I grew up, so I don’t know much about Sukkot. Why are people so excited about eating in this shack?</span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">Sukkot is both a biblical holiday (mentioned in the Torah) and an agricultural one.</span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">Sukkot is also called the Feast of Ingathering. It is one of three agricultural holidays in our tradition (the others being Passover & Shavuot) and it takes place at the conclusion of the fall harvest. These three holidays are also called the pilgrimage holidays, when during the time the Temple stood in Jerusalem, every man was obligated to go to Jerusalem with an thanks offering. It’s only good manners: good crop - thank you Hashem.</span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">In Leviticus 23: 42-43 we are instructed: <i>You shall dwell in sukkot seven days, every citizen in Israel shall dwell in sukkot, so that your descendants shall know that I caused the children of Israel to dwell in sukkot when I brought them out of the land of Egypt.</i> That’s right, there were no Motel 6s or Holiday Inns when the Israelites fled Egypt, so they build temporary shelters-sukkot (<i>booths</i>).</span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">Since the sukkot that the Israelites built were temporary, the ones we build are meant to be too. Some of the walls may be permanent, so it is not unusual that they are built against one side of a house (or Temple). The other walls may be bamboo, canvas, even highly decorated plywood! The roof however, must be temporary. While you can construct it to provide more shade than light, it must allow those inside to see the stars at night. Quite often people will use branches or bamboo poles. To commemorate the</span><span style="letter-spacing: 0px;"> agricultural nature of the holiday, the inside is often decorated with fruits and vegetables.</span><span style="letter-spacing: 0px;"> </span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">Traditionally, you must eat all of your meals in the sukkah during the seven day festival, weather permitting. Some families even sleep in theirs. Tanta Golda’s congregation tries to provide the opportunity for its members to eat at least one meal in the sukkah with their annual pot luck Shabbat. </span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">It is also customary to welcome the spiritual <i>ushpizin</i> (guests) that accompany every Jew into the sukkah. According to the Kabbala they are the seven shepherds of Israel: Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, Joseph, Moses, Aaron, and David. Think of them as the Jewish equivalent of your guardian angels. (Make sure you build your sukkah large enough to accommodate them all!)</span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">The Torah also commands us to: <i>take for yourselves...the fruit of a hadar </i>(beautiful)<i> tree </i>(an etrog)<i>, the branch of the palm trees, a bough from the "avot" tree, and willows of the stream</i>...these last three species make up the lulav. You are supposed to hold all four of these items together and shake them in six directions: up, down, east, west, north, south - representing that G-d is everywhere. You may also notice that the shaking of the lulav mimics the sound of rain, once again that agricultural tie in! In an arid place like the land of Israel, (or much of California) rain is very important!</span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">There is symbolic significance given to the four species, but Tanta Golda will address them another day.</span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0px;">Keep sending TG your questions: <a href="mailto:TantaGolda@gmail.com"><span style="color: #0b22a2; letter-spacing: 0px;">TantaGolda@gmail.com</span></a></span></div>
Geri Copitchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05959583503334926247noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5996235356192149367.post-41407142192797111612013-06-09T12:30:00.000-07:002013-06-28T16:20:51.394-07:00Brit Milah - Welcome to the Covenant Little One!<div style="text-align: right;">
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Dear Tanta Golda,</span></span><br />
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">What a blessing, a new life!</span></span><br />
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">A bris or brit is short for <i>berit milah </i>(covenant of circumcision) and refers to the religious ritual through which boy babies are formally welcomed into the Jewish community. It is pronounced bris by many Ashkenazi Jews, and brit by Sephardic Jews, and in eretz Israel. </span></span><br />
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Brit milah is the oldest Jewish ritual, established nearly 4,000 years ago. However, Jews were not the first people to engage in the rite of circumcision, many ancient cultures practiced it. Even today, a number of tribal people in Africa and elsewhere practice it, as do many Muslims. Remember, Abraham circumcised his son Ishmael once HaShem told him of the commandment.</span></span><br />
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">In Genesis 17 God says to Abraham: Every male among you shall be circumcised. You shall circumcise the flesh of your foreskin, and that shall be the sign of the covenant between Me and you. And throughout the generations, every male among you shall be circumcised at the age of eight days. (For a brief history of the Reform view of circumcision <a href="http://tantagoldaspeaks.blogspot.com/2011/07/what-is-hallabaloo-about-sf-anti.html"><span style="color: #0b22a2; letter-spacing: 0px;">click here</span></a>)</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">Brit milah is performed on the 8</span><span style="letter-spacing: 0px;"><sup>th</sup></span><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"> day after birth - even if it falls on Yom Kippur or Shabbat! That should tell you how important this ritual is. Only health of the newborn would delay this mitzvah. A minyan of ten Jews is desirable, but </span><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px; text-decoration: underline;">not essential</span><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">.</span></span><br />
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Traditionally, the ceremony begins with a processional, where the baby is carried in on a pillow by the <i>kvater*</i> or <i>kvaterin*. </i>Those present say: <i>Baruch haba </i>(Blessed be he who comes). They child is then handed off to the <i>sandak</i>* who is seated at the chair of Elijah. The child is either placed on a table, or held on the pillow in the sandek’s lap and the sandek holds him while the mohel performs the circumcision. </span></span><span style="text-align: right;"> </span><a href="http://www.amazon.com/s/?_encoding=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&keywords=brit%20milah&linkCode=ur2&qid=1372459310&rh=i%3Aaps%2Ck%3Abrit%20milah&tag=copitchinccom" style="text-align: right;" target="_blank">Brit Milah Pillows</a><br />
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The mohel says a blessing before performing the circumcision - <i>Baruch atah, Adonai Eloheinu, Melech haolam, asher kid’shanu b’mitzvotav v’tzivanu al hamilah</i> - Blessed are you Adodai our God, Sovereign of the universe, who makes us holy with mitzvah commanding us concerning circumcision.</span></span><br />
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Following the circumcision the parents say: <i>Baruch atah, Adonai Eloheinu, Melech haolam, asher kid’shanu b’mitzvotav, v’tzivanu l’hachniso biv’rito shel Avraham avinu</i> - Blessed are you Adodai our God, Sovereign of the universe, who makes us holy with mitzvah and commanding us to enter our son into the covenant of Abraham our father.</span></span><br />
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">All present respond: Just as he has entered the covenant, may he likewise embark upon a life blessed with Torah, marriage, and good deeds.</span></span><br />
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The mohel or parents then say the kiddush and a the baby’s is given his Hebrew name. The person reciting the kiddush drinks the wine, as does the baby. How is this possible Tanta Golda, you ask. A small piece of cloth is dipped in the wine and given to the child to suck on. Alternatively, a few drops of wine are placed on the child’s lips. </span></span><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1580232515/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=1580232515&linkCode=as2&tag=copitchinccom" style="text-align: right;">The New Jewish Baby Book: Names, Ceremonies & Customs-A Guide for Today's Families</a><br />
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Traditionally a <i>seudat mitzvah</i> - festive meal follows, and the parents and child are cooed over. Okay, that last bit is Tanta Golda’s minhag, but really, who wouldn’t coo?</span></span><br />
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">*Kvater, kvaterin, & sandek all translate as godfather/godmother. The kvater/kvaterin is a ceremonial position, while the sandek is the one who is considered by many to be the one who promises the parents to raise the child in the Jewish faith if some ill should befall them.</span></span><br />
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Thank you for your excellent question. Many the family enjoy much mazel!</span></span><br />
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">For rituals surrounding the birth of a daughter, please check out <a href="http://tantagoldaspeaks.blogspot.com/2011/12/naming-ritual-for-girls.html"><span style="color: #0b22a2; letter-spacing: 0px;">Naming Ritual for Girls</span></a> by clicking the blue link.</span></span><br />
<br />Geri Copitchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05959583503334926247noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5996235356192149367.post-57107448912849414142013-05-31T11:10:00.000-07:002013-05-31T11:15:40.876-07:00L'shalom vs B'shalom: What's the Big Deal?<br />
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">Recently a friend of mine from Temple signed off her email to me with L’shalom. Another friend uses B’shalom. What's the translation for L'Shalom? Why do we use it?</span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">This is a hotly discussed topic in some circles. As you may know, Hebrew often attaches small words that we call prepositions or conjunctions as prefixes to words. For example: Ha as a prefix means <i>the</i>, L' means <i>to</i> or <i>towards</i>. B' means <i>in</i> or <i>with</i>. You will have seen/heard them used like this: b’yad: (by the) hand, hagafen: (the) vine, l’chayim: (to) life.</span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">So l'shalom means <i>towards</i> peace; b'shalom <i>in</i> peace. Now you might be saying to yourself, “But they seem so similar, what’s the rub?” An excellent question, and one that leads to many people using them incorrectly.</span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">Apparently, for a variety of reasons, b'shalom is reserved for the dead, as in: May her soul go b'shalom--in peace. There are several passages in Torah where b’shalom is used in referencing the dead, or more specifically when addressing someone you wish were dead. Sort of like, “Go to hell!” It would seem that when Joseph’s brothers sold him off to traders they used the phrase b’shalom: they wished him dead.</span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">L'shalom is used when addressing the living--may you go towards peace. Doesn't that sound nice? The Talmud, in <i>Berachos 64a,</i> explains that a living person must always seek to grow spiritually and keep from stagnating. Therefore, they should go towards peace: keep working at it. A dead person however, remains at whatever spiritual level they attained in their lifetime.</span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">So, when speaking to your friends it is gracious to say l’shalom. If they are your enemies...well it is best just to keep it to yourself! </span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">In re-checking my answer for you I found that a more common sign off is "kol tuv", meaning 'be well'.</span></div>
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Geri Copitchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05959583503334926247noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5996235356192149367.post-72078828034002107482013-04-29T10:07:00.000-07:002013-06-28T16:37:36.052-07:00Parsha - Is it a Partial Reading?<div style="text-align: right;">
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">I just attended a Bar Mitzvah and the young man kept using the word <i>parsha</i>. What is a parsha? Is it a single chapter of the Torah? Just a few paragraphs? More?</span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">A very good question, and not so simple to answer. (It’s Judaism, would you expect less?) But, let’s start with a little background.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">Public reading of the Torah was established by Ezra the Scribe in the 8</span><span style="letter-spacing: 0px;"><sup>th</sup></span><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"> century. Before then, only certain sections were read to the masses on a few select festival days. Ezra felt that it would be good for the people to be touched by the words of the Torah far more frequently. He set Monday, Thursday, and Saturdays as the days for public reading. Why those days? Saturday was/is Shabbat, and Monday & Thursdays were market days,when large numbers of merchants etc came into the city. Who doesn’t love a crowd? He also said that this way people would go no more than 3 days without hearing Torah. </span></span><a href="http://www.amazon.com/s/?_encoding=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&field-keywords=torah%20scroll&linkCode=ur2&rh=i%3Aaps%2Ck%3Atorah%20scroll&tag=copitchinccom&url=search-alias%3Daps" style="text-align: right; text-indent: 0px;" target="_blank">Torah Scrolls</a></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">The Torah as you know, contains five books, with a total of 187 chapters. These are divided into 54 portions or <i>Parshot</i> (singular=parsha). *50 in a leap year, which means some doubling up! </span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Now, there are two ways to read through the Torah: annually - as is done at Tanta Golda’s Temple-where the entire Torah is read over the course of a year. The annual cycle originated in Babylon, and is followed by the majority of Jews.</span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">A second way is a triennial cycle - where each parsha further divided into thirds (for a total of 155 parshot). The first third of each traditional parsha is read one year, the middle third the second year, and the final third during the third year. By this method it takes 3 years to completely read the Torah. This cycle originated in Palestine during the Rabbinic period (70-500 CE). Some among the Conservative stream follow the triennial cycle.</span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Parshot vary considerably in length. In the annual cycle, the shortest is 30 lines. The longest 150 lines. A few are a single chapter, several are 6 chapters, but the average seems to be 3-4 chapters in length. </span></span><a href="http://www.amazon.com/s/?_encoding=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&field-keywords=tenach&linkCode=ur2&rh=i%3Aaps%2Ck%3Atenach&tag=copitchinccom&url=search-alias%3Daps" style="text-align: right; text-indent: 0px;" target="_blank">Tanakh</a></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Traditionally, each Parsha is begun during the afternoon service on Saturday, with a little read on Monday & Thursday, and completed on the following Saturday morning. </span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Now, if your congegation is small like Tanta Golda’s, you probably don’t have Torah readings during the week. If that is the case, quite often the rabbi will chose which part of the week’s parsha to read on Shabbat morning. At Tanta Golda’s Temple we encourage our bar/bat mitzvah students to choose a section from their parsha that is meaningful to them. However, this is the exception, not the rule for how Torah is read. </span></span><a href="http://www.amazon.com/s/?_encoding=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&field-keywords=torah%20commentary&linkCode=ur2&rh=i%3Aaps%2Ck%3Atorah%20commentary&sprefix=torah%20com%2Caps%2C1425&tag=copitchinccom&url=search-alias%3Daps" style="text-align: right; text-indent: 0px;" target="_blank">Torah Commentary</a></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">I hope your young man did a wonderful job with his reading!</span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0px;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">It is a Tree of Life for all hold fast to it - Tanta Golda</span></span><br />
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Geri Copitchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05959583503334926247noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5996235356192149367.post-20588945637431752432013-03-19T11:42:00.000-07:002014-04-13T11:42:46.054-07:00Do You Light Yahrzeit Candles on Passover?<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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It has come to my attention that many of you are wondering if/when one should light a Yahrzeit candle on Passover. The short answer - Yes!</div>
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Yahrzeit candles are also supposed to be lit whenever a Yiskor (remembrance) service is said in synagogue. This would be, Yom Kippur, and <u>the last day</u> of the three pilgrimage holidays: Shemini Atzeret (the 8th day of Sukkot), <span style="color: red;">Passover</span>, and <span style="color: blue;">Shavuot</span>.</div>
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Remember my quizative ones, Jewish 'days' begin at sundown of the previous day (according to our secular-everyday- calendar). So, for Pesach you will light the Yahrzeit candle at sundown the evening before the final day of Passover. If you are Reform or live in Israel and celebrate the holiday for 7 days, this will be after sundown on <span style="color: #cc0000;">April 20th</span> 2014. If you are Orthodox or Conservative and observe Pesach for 8 days, you will light your candle(s) on the evening of <span style="color: #cc0000;">April 21st</span> 2014.</div>
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Here is a link to find the <a href="http://www.chabad.org/calendar/candlelighting.htm">candle lighting times in your area</a>. There is even a mobile app if your phone is smarter than you are!</div>
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May you have fond memories of sharing Pesach with your departed loved ones.</div>
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Geri Copitchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05959583503334926247noreply@blogger.com12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5996235356192149367.post-735370299588750372013-03-17T02:32:00.003-07:002013-03-17T02:32:49.993-07:00Are Locusts Kosher?<br />
<span style="letter-spacing: 0px;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Dear Tanta Golda,</span></span><br />
<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh8ditw-P3K4mi5VDO7cbHy2Oosh2izbTJpdM8u0lqPrMiPkwvII0jV-O_qU3YZEeOvOonlRSsZqCGQjo6VyMKM_3Gl1LI5dd71cC6zEzfO7Ko4fKOi1n7oekR0T4fuWhnAqlZlvpG2vIIG/s1600/locusts_6.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="133" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh8ditw-P3K4mi5VDO7cbHy2Oosh2izbTJpdM8u0lqPrMiPkwvII0jV-O_qU3YZEeOvOonlRSsZqCGQjo6VyMKM_3Gl1LI5dd71cC6zEzfO7Ko4fKOi1n7oekR0T4fuWhnAqlZlvpG2vIIG/s200/locusts_6.jpg" width="200" /></a><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">I was reading in the news that in early March, 30 million locusts invaded Egypt and have since then migrated to Israel. Are locusts kosher? If so, are they meat or dairy? Can I eat them with ice cream? </span></span><br />
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Dear Creepy,</span></span><br />
<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">What planning by those locusts - just in time for Pesach! Apparently this is an annual occurrence, they just happen to be more abundant than usual this year.</span></span><br />
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Leviticus 11 states that all things that creep on the ground, and all winged swarming things, including insects, are not kosher - with the exception of those with jointed legs above their feet which they use to leap upon the earth. The Torah specifically enumerates: locusts, the cricket, and the grasshopper as being okay. Now darling, there are some rabbis who say since we can’t know exactly which types of locust the Torah was referring to, it is advisable to avoid eating them altogether so as not to risk eating the non-kosher variety. (Like anyone would need to tell Tanta Golda not to eat locust, uch - so...crunchy!)</span></span><br />
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">However, according to Tanta Golda’s Pentateuch, it says: the locust after its kinds…(Lev. 11:22) That seems to me to include all locusts. But, what do I know?</span></span><br />
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Locusts, like fish, are considered <i>parve </i>(neutral), so neither strictly meat nor dairy. That means bubbelah, that you can go right ahead and sprinkle locusts all over the top of your ice cream sundae!</span></span><br />
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Have a joyous Passover, may your matzah balls be fluffy, and your locusts...oy.</span></span><br />
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looks like a funky hand. Funky, because typically the ‘thumb’ and ‘pinky’ on a
hamsa are symmetrical (the same). If you look at yours, you’ll notice they most
certainly are not! Hamsa are worn as jewelry, hung on walls, even decorate
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where it is a symbol of good luck and often referred to as ‘the hand of Fatima’.
<i>What?</i> You say, <i>a Jewish symbol comes from Islam?</i> Yes dear, get over it. Things
were not always so contentious in the holy land. <o:p></o:p></span><a href="http://www.amazon.com/s/?_encoding=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&field-keywords=hand%20of%20fatima&linkCode=ur2&rh=i%3Aaps%2Ck%3Ahand%20of%20fatima&tag=copitchinccom&url=search-alias%3Daps" style="font-family: 'Albertus Medium'; text-align: right;" target="_blank">Hand of Fatima</a><br />
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Hebrew words for “five” khamsa/hamesh are very similar, and where the symbol
gets its name. In Judaism it is said that the five fingers represent the Five
Books of Moses, though others say it represents the hand of God, and in kabbalistic
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said to protect against the ‘evil eye’, a look that brings bad fortune.
Additional protection is offered by other symbols added to the hamsa. Some
common ones are a blue eye; the letters chet-yud for <i>chai</i>- life; a Star of David; or fish – which are thought to be
symbols of luck themselves. <o:p></o:p></span><a href="http://www.amazon.com/s/?_encoding=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&field-keywords=hamsa&linkCode=ur2&rh=i%3Aaps%2Ck%3Ahamsa&tag=copitchinccom&url=search-alias%3Daps" style="font-family: 'Albertus Medium'; text-align: right;" target="_blank">Hamsa</a></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0px;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Dear Tanta Golda,</span></span><br />
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">At our book club meeting this month, one of my friends brought up this interesting question: If Adonai is perfect, how could he have created Satan, the embodiment of evil? We don’t talk about Satan much in Judaism, so we were at a bit of a loss. Can you help?</span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Ah, when a bunch of scholars get together such interesting questions arise!</span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">To begin with, not wanting to hurt your friend’s feelings, he is basing his premise on two fallacies. The first is the misconception that Jews believe Adonai is infallible. This is Christian dogma, not necessarily Jewish. Now, I’m not saying that Jews believe God goes around making mistakes at the drop of a hat. But let me make two points.</span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">First, let us look at two prayers which are said everyday that heap praise on God. <b>Avot</b>: “The great, mighty and awesome God, supreme God...Sovereign, helper, rescuer, and shield...” <b>Kaddish</b>: “Blessed, praised, glorified, exalted, extolled, honored, magnified, and adored…” </span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Nowhere in this litany does it saw “perfect, infallible, unerring, or faultless”. I mean, wouldn’t you think that would be in there somewhere?</span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Second, if Adonai were unerring, why would God have remorse after the flood? “Tanta Golda, She did?” Yes! That is why She made a convent with Noah, sealed with the rainbow. Another example - the destruction of Sodom and Gomorrah. If God were unerring, would Abraham have stood a chance in ‘negotiating’? Wouldn’t God know whether the whole city was bad,or if there were fifty or ten good people within? And what about Lilith-God’s direct creation...</span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">My darling nephew Ethan wrote a paper for college (such a smart boy) about Satan in the Bible, and I’m going to use his research to help answer your question. Believe it or not, the Torah does not mention Satan, at least not as the evil being that seeks the downfall of Humankind.</span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">The original Hebrew term Satan is a verb that means “to oppose or obstruct” it is often found with the article “ha-” which translates to “the”. Ha-Satan appears thirteen times in the Masoretic Text, a word specific version of the Tanakh. The Masoretic Text/Tanakh includes not only the Torah (Jewish Bible), but also writings of prophetic scholars, and selected other Jewish stories. In it, ha-satan appears 3 times in Zechariah and 10 in Job. It appears another ten times without the article “the” elsewhere, and it is more often than not translated as ‘opposer’ or ‘adversary’.</span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">For example, in the story of Baalam and his ass going off to curse the Israelites- Numbers 22:22 “God's anger was kindled because he (Balaam) went; and the angel of the LORD placed himself in the way for <b>an adversary</b> (לְשָׂטָן-l’satan) against him.” Here we see an angel acting as an adversary of Balaam at Godʼs command. Hardly the fallen angel, evil, soul-sucking, tempter of the Christian Bible.</span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">In fact, out of the twenty-three different times that the word satan or ha-satan is used in the Jewish texts, not one time do they mean devil. Where did this concept come from? Honestly the answer in brief: mistranslations by the Greeks and other scholars along the centuries.</span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0px;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Thank you for your wonderful question! Much love and Happy Hannukah - TG</span></span></div>
Geri Copitchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05959583503334926247noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5996235356192149367.post-27521549678334214062012-10-11T10:37:00.001-07:002012-10-11T10:37:29.080-07:00Shabbat Candles: Whys & How tos<br />
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">My friend was given the honor of lighting the candles at Temple recently and we began to wonder about some of the customs about lighting the candles, like covering the eyes, the swooping motion with the hands. And, while we’re at it, why DO we cover the challah?</span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">My darling Lamb, you ask wonderful questions!</span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">I’d like to begin by differentiating between what we are required to do and what have become ‘traditions’. </span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">On Shabbat, one is commanded “to kindle the light of Shabbat”, and to “remember the Sabbath day and keep it holy” (sanctify it). That’s it. (Well, not counting the 39 labors prohibited on Shabbat.) Everything else we do is tradition - even if you don’t live in a village with a fiddler.</span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">Let’s begin with the lighting of the candle(s), since this is how we bring in Shabbat. Did you notice above I quoted “ light of Shabbat”, as in a single lamp or candle? However, it is a widespread custom to light at least two since the the commandment to observe Shabbat comes up twice in the Torah. There is nothing that says one can’t light more than this, and some families have the tradition of lighting a candle for each woman in the family.</span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">The blessing over the candles signals the beginning of Shabbat. Now my darling, all of Tanta Golda’s sources stipulate that we </span><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px; text-decoration: underline;">always</span><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"> recite blessings just before we do an act. However, the laws of Shabbat prohibit us from kindling fire on Shabbat, so how can one follow both? By being just a wee bit sneaky. One closes their eyes and or places their hands between their eyes and the candles to ‘hide’ the light until the blessing has been completed. Then, once the hands are removed - viola! Shabbat has begun.</span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">As you’ve noted, some women have the tradition of swooping their hands to their eyes three times before reciting the blessing. This is done to bring the light and holiness of Shabbat to you. This would seem contrary to the admonition of seeing the lights before the blessing is said, but even my Modern Orthodox friends at Aish.com say it’s okay. Again, this is a custom, and not required if it makes you feel self-conscious. </span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">While we’re on the subject of covering things while performing Shabbat mitzvot, let’s discuss why we cover the challah. You might think it’s just to keep off the flies, or dust, but you’d be wrong (though, who wants to eat challah covered with fly-prints?) The actual reason has to do with protecting the dignity of the challah. Believe it or not, there is actually a hierarchy for eating foods. Bread, is highest on the list - the staff of life, so logically one should say the blessing over the bread first. Have you ever seen this? No, of course not! This is because we are commanded to sanctify Shabbat, and we do this by first saying the <i>kiddush</i> (which means ‘holy’ or ‘sanctification’) over the wine. We cover the challah so it won’t be shamed at playing second fiddle to the wine, a lesser food. The sages said that if we go to such lengths to pay respect to inanimate objects, we are lead to see the importance of showing respect living beings.</span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0px;">May this Shabbat, and all that follow be filled with holiness and joy - TG</span></div>
Geri Copitchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05959583503334926247noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5996235356192149367.post-62816307272419999172012-08-03T20:55:00.000-07:002013-06-28T16:41:56.642-07:00If Judaism and Islam Both Use Lunar Calendars, Why Are They So Different?<div style="text-align: right;">
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">There’s been talk in the news about the Islamic holiday of Ramadan and how their lunar calendar works. It got me thinking, I know that the Jewish calendar is also lunar and has something to do with why the holidays seem to change every year, but I don’t really get it. Rosh Hashannah is always in September, but I remember when Ramadan was in October and now it’s in July.</span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">The short answer: Yes, they’re both lunar, but both are modified lunar calendars.</span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">For reference, most of the world follows the Gregorian calendar, introduced in 1582 by <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pope_Gregory_XIII">Pope Gregory XIII</a>, based on our rotation around the sun. One complete circuit=one complete year.</span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">Many traditional societies follow(ed) a lunar calendar: one based on the cycle of the waxing and waning of the moon. In a true lunar calendar, each lunar month begins at the time of the monthly "conjunction", when the Moon is located on a straight line between the Earth and the Sun. Months alternate between 29-30 days. With one day added every 3 years. Both Judaism and Islam use some form of lunar calendar.</span></span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">Islam’s calendar is close to a ‘pure’ lunar calendar. It consists of 12 lunar months in a year of 354 or 355 days. Being a lunar calendar, it is not synchronized with the seasons. With an annual drift of 10 or 11 days, the seasonal relation repeats about every 33 Islamic years. This is why Ramadan began in July this year. Each month begins when a crescent moon - or ‘new moon’ is sighted at sundown after the 29</span><span style="font: 8.0px Verdana; letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><sup>th</sup></span><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"> day. If for some reason it is not sighted (clouds, the sky is too bright when the moon sets) then the month continues through the 30</span><span style="font: 8.0px Verdana; letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><sup>th</sup></span><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"> day. (This lead this year to different countries beginning Ramadan on different days.) Years in the Islamic tradition are counted from the time Mohammed travelled to Medina. This is the year 1433.</span></span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">Judaism follows many of the same practices, with modifications. However, in practice we follow a lunisolar calendar: a combination of lunar and solar cycles. It takes about 12 ½ lunar cycles for the Earth to travel around the sun. If we only followed the lunar cycles we would soon be celebrating Hannukah during the summer. To correct for this the Jewish calendar adds a leap month every 2-3 years. It comes after the month of Adar, and is called, creatively, Adar II. This means that Passover always occurs in the spring, Hannukah in the dark days of winter, and the High Holy Days - my little moonbeam - can start as early as September 4</span><span style="font: 8.0px Verdana; letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><sup>th</sup></span><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"> (2013) or as late as September 28</span><span style="font: 8.0px Verdana; letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><sup>th</sup></span><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"> (2011), but never in July or December. Years in the Jewish tradition are counted from the creation of the world. (Feel free to ask that lovely young man Rabbi Jeremy how the ancient rabbis determined this.) This year we enter the year 5773.</span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">I hope this answers your question. Please keep sending your queries to <a href="mailto:TantaGolda@gmail.com"><span style="color: #0b22a2; letter-spacing: 0.0px; text-decoration: underline;">TantaGolda@gmail.com</span></a></span></span><br />
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Geri Copitchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05959583503334926247noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5996235356192149367.post-62301841824545326192012-07-07T10:25:00.000-07:002012-08-23T23:58:33.274-07:00Marriage - Interfaith, Same - Gender, What's the Deal?<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">I’ve been curious what the three main streams of Judaism have to say about interfaith marriage, and for that matter, what their stands are on same-sex marriage? And what about same-sex interfaith marriages while we’re at it?</span></span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">Very timely questions you ask! What makes it timely? Well darling when I began looking into this I found out that just one month ago, May 31</span><span style="font: 8.0px Helvetica; letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><sup>st</sup></span><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">, the Rabbinical Assembly’s Committee on Jewish Law and Standards - which sets halachic policy for the Conservative movement - voted unanimously to provide the roughly 1,600 Conservative rabbis with guidelines on performing same sex marriages. According to my sources, this move constitutes an official sanction of same-sex marriage by the movement! </span></span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">In 2000 the Central Conference of American Rabbis - which speaks for the Reform movement - adopted a resolution which stated “the relationship of a Jewish, same gender couple is worthy of affirmation through appropriate Jewish ritual.” The Reform movement today sees the biblical injunctions against same-gender* couples and homosexuality in general, as being inconsistent with its long tradition of justice and compassion. *</span><span style="font: 10.0px Helvetica; letter-spacing: 0.0px;">This is the preferred term</span></span><br />
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">Now, for your other question: interfaith marriage. Believe it or not, interfaith marriage has garnered far less acceptance across all streams of Judaism than same-gender marriage! Maybe you’re not surprised, but I was. (So, ‘no’ to the question of same-gender interfaith marriages.) As a Reform Jew Tanta Golda reads a lot about how the movement encourages reaching out to interfaith couples - but apparently this is after their marriage is a fait-au-complete.</span></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">Let me elucidate. The basic premise is that interfaith marriage “denies the distinctiveness of Jewish marriage, it weakens the fabric of family relationship and the survival potential of the Jewish community.” And this is from Mark Washofsky who wrote the definitive guide to contemporary </span><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px; text-decoration: underline;">Reform</span><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"> practice! This was re-affirmed institutionally at the 1973 meeting of the CCAR (Central Conference of American Rabbis).</span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">The Conservative movement ‘discourages intermarriage’, meaning their rabbis won’t perform any, but that they don’t shun those interfaith couples who wish to be members. They hope that eventually through acceptance of the interfaith couple, they will choose to raise their children as Jews, and the non-Jewish spouse will move closer to Judaism and eventually choose to convert.</span></span><br />
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">The intermarriage rate before 1970 was 13%. Between 1970-1979 it jumped to 28%. By 2001 it had reached 47%. That is, nearly half of marriages of Jews were to non-Jewish spouses. Half the couples in interfaith marriages do not expose their children to any kind of (Jewish) religious instruction. </span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">I’ve been asked to recite the blessing over the bread at a wedding and say a few words, but I am humbled to admit that I don’t know why we say a blessing over the bread. Could you help me out, please?</span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">Bashfully Baffled B.</span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">Sometimes it is the most basic questions that are left unasked. Just because the question appears simple, doesn’t mean that everyone knows the answer!</span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">First let us discuss briefly the purpose of prayer. The ancient rabbis (those slightly older than Tanta Golda dear) said that the purpose of prayer is to remind us of God’s presence at all times, and so that we don’t just take things for granted.</span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">The Babylonian Talmud states: Whoever enjoys the fruit of this world without first saying a blessing has stolen from God. (<i>B’rachot</i> 35a) Goodness!</span></blockquote>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">It is also stated in the Talmud that one should say 100 blessings - a day! Well if you have time to attend three daily services and throw in a few more blessings throughout the day for food, etc, you can easily get to 100, but really… </span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">Maimonides, the great Jewish philosopher said that there are three types of blessings: Those recited prior to eating, drinking, or smelling nice things - <i>Birchot Hanehenin</i>, blessings recited before performing a mitzvot - <i>Birchot Hamitzvot</i>, and blessings that express praise of God, give thanks, as well as those that ask for things - <i>Birchot Hodaah</i>.</span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">There are two main ‘formulas’ for prayers. The vast majority begin with the same six words: Baruch ata Adonai, Eloheinu melech haolam… Praised are You, Adonai our God Ruler of the universe…</span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">The second important formula is the one recited for ritual acts that are mitzvot-things we are commanded to do. These have a ten word opening: Baruch ata Adonai, Eloheinu melech haolam, asher kid’shanu b’mitzvoav v’tzivanu… Praised are You, Adonai our God Ruler of the universe, who hallows us with mitzvot, commanding us to…</span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">The blessing that we recite over bread is one of the Birchot Hanehenin, so begins with the six word opening: Baruch ata Adonai, Eloheinu melech haolam, <b>who brings forth bread from the earth</b>.</span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">Now to your question regarding the specific reason why we say a blessing over bread. Bread has always been seen as a symbol of life. In the Bible there are many examples of guests being offered bread to eat. (As you remember, Abraham and Sarah are famous for their hospitality.) In fact, bread is so important that this one blessing said at the beginning of the meal covers ALL the food to be eaten during the meal!</span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">Keep your questions coming, whether basic or complex! Love TG</span></div>Geri Copitchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05959583503334926247noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5996235356192149367.post-85613691445074122152012-04-27T12:07:00.000-07:002012-04-27T12:07:13.117-07:00When Does Chicken Moo? Or, Is Chicken Dairy?<br />
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">A question came up at our pot luck the other night, can you eat chicken with dairy? If not, why not? </span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">Also, isn’t there some holiday coming up where we are supposed to eat dairy? What’s that about?</span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">As always I’m impressed with the questions all of you send me. Chicken - oye! The biblical injunction states:”you shall not boil a kid in its mother’s milk”. (Exodus 23:19, 34:26, & Deuteronomy 14:21) This would seem to any logical person to refer to mammals alone, since for all intents and purposes only mammalian mothers produce milk. (I recently learned on Science Friday about an insect that does, but how many of us intentionally eat insects?) So, it would seem at first blush that chicken and milk would get the rabbinic nod. Ha!</span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">In traditional Judaism chicken is not considered dairy - that is a food that can be eaten at the same meal as dairy products. This <i>halacha</i> is found in the Babylonian Talmud. The reasoning behind this stems from a) the fact that beef, lamb, and chicken are all slaughtered in the same ritual fashion, and b) because at least in ancient times they were all cooked in similar fashions and people might confuse them.</span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">This is another instance when Tanta Golda just shakes her head and thinks that this shows once again how little men in ancient times understood about what went on in the kitchen. It’s not like ancient housewives went to the freezer and pulled out “mystery meat” and thought ‘is this chicken or lamb?’ In an age of no refrigeration, chicken was slaughtered usually a few hours before consumption. If I had just spent a half hour covered in chicken feathers, I’m pretty sure I’d remember that the meat I was cooking was chicken, not moo cow.</span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">Some Jews choose to follow the biblical rules of kashrut alone, for them chicken and diary would be acceptable. If you are having guests over who keep kosher, you should check to see at what level they observe.</span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">In just a few weeks we will be observing Shavuot (May 26-27 2012). It has become tradition to eat dairy dishes on this day. Several reasons are given.</span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">One is that Shavuot has become associated with the day when the Jews received the Torah at Mt. Sinai. While they were learning about the rules of kashrut, especially those regarding ritual slaughter, they refrained from meat and ate dairy instead. Another reason is that the words of Torah are often compared to milk & honey. Similarly, the land of Israel is referred to as the land of milk & honey. I think it’s a wonderful excuse to eat cheesecake and blintzes! </span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: small;">For more Passover questions answered, check out my blogs from March and April of 2011</span></span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: small;">Love as always, and may your matzah always be crispy,</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif; font-size: small;"><br /></span></div>Geri Copitchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05959583503334926247noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5996235356192149367.post-27415086279688911812012-03-12T19:06:00.000-07:002012-03-25T22:10:14.743-07:00Quinoa for Pesach?<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Dear Tanta Golda,</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">I'm going to be hosting a large group at my house on the second night of Pesach. I was wondering, can I serve quinoa?</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Dearest Curious,</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">An interesting question! I'd say yes as it isn't one of the 5 prohibited grains: wheat, rye, oat, barley, spelt.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">As you may know <i>some</i> Ashkenazic Jews also refrain from rice, and legumes such as peas ( this always seemed silly to me - I mean if it isn't in flour form, why not?) and Sephardic Jews often refrain from corn and rice as well as legumes.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Quinoa doesn't make any of these lists. It originated in the Andes - historically not a part of the world that our ancestors migrated from. Now perhaps rabbis in South America have made "rulings" on this, but I'd say you're safe.</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Have a Happy Pesach!</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Tanta Golda</span></div>Geri Copitchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05959583503334926247noreply@blogger.com0